First Time: Anal Beads

The first time Mr. CuriousCanadian suggested we give anal beads a try, I admit I was a little (OK, maybe a lot) intimidated. How could having a long flexible rod, with beads of increasing size stuffed up my butt feel good? But, oh did it ever!! After taking it very, very, very slow (and using lots of verbal checking in, lots and lots of lube, and constant stimulation of my clitoris with my trusty vibe) I had the most mind-blowing orgasm. What made it even more over the top, was Mr. CuriousCanadian slowly pulling the beads out as my Orgasm crested. This set off another (and then another) Orgasm! To say I was hooked, is an understatement!

We have incorporated anal beads into our sex play many times since then, with both of us being on the receiving end. To help you get the most of your first time using anal beads, I've listed some tips below. Read and enjoy:

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1. Don't just start with the beads

Before beginning, prepare your butt for the beads by first inserting your finger, or your partners, up your bum. Apply lube liberally to your finger and your butt-hole; then slowly insert your finger into your bum going as slowly as you need.

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2. Practice by yourself

Sometimes its easier figuring out your likes and don't likes by yourself. Before rushing to try anal beads with your partner, maybe spend sometime experimenting by yourself, taking it as slow as you need.

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3. Use lube and then more lube

Your anus does not self-lubricate, therefore, you are going to have to supply the lubrication. Silicon-based lube lasts longer but it may interact with silicon-based anal beads. If you are using silicon-based toys, then always use water-based lube.

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4. Go slow

Insert the beads one at a time, taking deep breaths as each bead pushes pass your anus opening. You don't need to insert all the beads -- stop whenever you want. I felt a pleasurable feeling of fullness. Once I reached that point, I stopped -- Only having inserted four of the 9 beads.

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5. Be creative

I like having the beads inside me, while Mr. CuriousCanadian is fucking me. If we are doing it doggy-style, he will slide the beads in and out of my ass, as he is pounding my pussy. This produces incredible sensations for, not just me, but him as well.

Try different types of beads as well. You can get curved beads, silicon-based beads, glass beads and even vibrating beads.

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